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Relationship Design Worksheet
This Relationship Design Worksheet is a practical, flexible tool for anyone who wants to build relationships with intention instead of default expectations.
It blends the structure of a non-escalator relationship menu with the depth and autonomy-focused values of relationship anarchy. The result is a guided worksheet that helps you name what you want, what you do not want, and what you might want later without assuming romance, hierarchy, or a traditional relationship path.
This worksheet is intended as a conversation starter, not a contract. You can use it for solo reflection or as a shared tool with partners, polycules, play partners, or chosen family. It supports ongoing communication by making space for emotional intimacy, physical and sexual connection, communication styles, autonomy, care, money, power dynamics, visibility, and boundaries.
This tool is especially helpful for folks exploring non-monogamy, relationship anarchy, queer relationships, kink dynamics, or relationships that do not fit the traditional escalator. It is also a great fit for anyone who wants more clarity, consent, and care in how they relate to others.
Educational note:
Many of us were taught that commitment, intimacy, and care are supposed to come as a package deal and follow a specific order. This worksheet helps break those assumptions apart so relationships can be built based on consent, communication, and real needs rather than cultural scripts.
This Relationship Design Worksheet is a practical, flexible tool for anyone who wants to build relationships with intention instead of default expectations.
It blends the structure of a non-escalator relationship menu with the depth and autonomy-focused values of relationship anarchy. The result is a guided worksheet that helps you name what you want, what you do not want, and what you might want later without assuming romance, hierarchy, or a traditional relationship path.
This worksheet is intended as a conversation starter, not a contract. You can use it for solo reflection or as a shared tool with partners, polycules, play partners, or chosen family. It supports ongoing communication by making space for emotional intimacy, physical and sexual connection, communication styles, autonomy, care, money, power dynamics, visibility, and boundaries.
This tool is especially helpful for folks exploring non-monogamy, relationship anarchy, queer relationships, kink dynamics, or relationships that do not fit the traditional escalator. It is also a great fit for anyone who wants more clarity, consent, and care in how they relate to others.
Educational note:
Many of us were taught that commitment, intimacy, and care are supposed to come as a package deal and follow a specific order. This worksheet helps break those assumptions apart so relationships can be built based on consent, communication, and real needs rather than cultural scripts.