Sex Coaching & Sexuality Education for Adults

Cady S. Moore is an AASECT-certified sexuality educator and coach based in Sacramento, specializing in LGBTQ+ issues, kink and BDSM, non-monogamous relationship coaching, sexual self-esteem, and body awareness. She offers shame-free, judgment-free support for individuals, couples, and groups. Discounts for LGBTQ+, sex workers, BIPOC, and folks with disabilities.

ady S. Moore, AASECT-certified sexuality educator and coach, sitting on a couch smiling and reading Pussypedia, surrounded by houseplants in a warm home setting

Coaching

This is for you if:

  • You wonder if your sex life could be better

  • You feel frustrated or hopeless about your dating life

  • You are curious about “what else is out there” for you in relationships

  • You want to develop or explore your sense of sexual self

  • You are experiencing a loss of libido and/or sexual function

Together we'll explore your core values and discover how to better align them with your sexuality, sensuality, and self-expression. Using a sex-positive, trauma-informed approach, I'll guide you toward a deeper understanding of what love and sex mean to you — and help you communicate that clearly to yourself and your partners.

"I can't thank Cady enough. She is compassionate, sharply intelligent, and openly curious. Her advice from even our first session resonates for me months later. I know I can be a more authentic person thanks to her." — Client S, 2023

Ready to Dig In?

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Education & Individual Sessions

This is for you if:

  • You want to learn more about sexual health and functioning

  • You're curious about the biology of sex and sexuality

  • You want to start tracking your hormone cycles to live in better sync with your body

  • You host retreats or workshops and want expert support

An educator by blood and training (I come from four generations of teachers and educators!), I bring candor, energy, and genuine enthusiasm to every session. I work with existing lesson plans and adjust them to your needs, and I create curriculum and content from scratch.

Ready to Learn?

    • Sexuality & sexual health and functioning

    • Self-esteem around sex and communicating needs within relationships

    • Sexuality & intimacy

    • Polyamory, non-monogamy, and open relationships

    • Kink, BDSM, and D/s relationships

    • LGBTQIA2S+ issues

  • You will learn how to:

    • Ask for what you need and want in the bedroom

    • Express your authentic self within intimacy and sexuality

    • Understand consent and consensual sex

    • Recognize barriers to romantic love and remove them

    • Find your voice and speak your mind freely

    • Reconnect to your creative self

    • Have more access to pleasure

    • Build self-esteem

    • Feel less isolated

    • Develop skills to cope with anxiety

    • Individual adults

    • Couples

    • Groups of adults

    • Groups of young people

    • Individual youth (ages 12+)

    • School groups

    • Faith-based organizations

  • Sexual diversity can be challenging to talk about openly, whether with partners, family, friends, medical providers, or therapists. Stigma, shame, and guilt can be powerful contributing factors to one’s struggle with identity and understanding their own sexuality, orientation, and gender.

    This is an explicitly affirming space. I welcome gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, intersex, queer, questioning, all types of non-monogamy/open relationships/polyamory expressions or explorations, sex-positive, and kinky/BDSM clients. You will be called by your name and pronouns, always.

    I also understand that your sexual identity or expression may not be the focus of our work together, and that is completely okay. It may also be that through our work together you determine that you have needs that can best be met through therapy or through seeking the support of other professionals. I commit to helping you take the next step on your journey, and I am so grateful for your trust and willingness to have me here with you.

    Find links to resources on sexual diversity here.

How it Works

I offer a free 15-minute phone consultation to all new clients. Discounts available for Trans folks, sex workers, BIPOC, and people with disabilities.

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"Cady made a space for me to be my fullest self and feel safe to explore new facets of my sexuality and my sensuality." — Client M, 2024