The following resources have been used and cited in past sessions.
If you have any questions or resources to add, please reach out!
Books
Tell Me What You Want - Justin Lehmiller
Mating in Captivity - Esther Perel
The Ethical Slut - Dossie Easton & Janet W. Hardy
Wrestling with Menstruation - At the Well
Holy Bodies - At the Well
Come as You Are - Emily Nagoski
Attached - Amir Levine & Rachel Heller
Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle - Emily Nagoski + Amelia Nagoski
The Erotic Mind - Jack Morin
Hot and Unbothered - Yana Tallon-Hicks
Podcasts
Sex with Emily
They Talk Sex - Elle Stanger
Tight-Lipped (about vulvovaginal pain)
Where Should We Begin by Esther Perel
Sex News with Rae (listen to Rae and I talk about kink, non-monogamy, asexuality, and all sorts of fun sexy things!)
Websites
OMGYes.com (amazing resource for women's pleasure)
FLOLiving.com (hormonal health)
dodsonandross.com (pleasure)
Bedsider.org (birth control)
SIECUS.ORG (sex ed)
Scarleteen.com (sex ed)
sexschoolhub.com (explicit sex ed)
thebodyisnotanapology.com (radical self-love)
ohjoysextoy.com (sex ed and info on sex toys!)
Apps
Elvie (kegel and pelvic floor trainer)
CORAL (personal sex and desire coach app)
Gottman card decks (app with questions for strengthening relationships)
For Survivors
National Sexual Assault Telephone Hotline 1-800-656-4673
AARDVARC
AFTER SILENCE
Pandora's Project
National Sexual Violence Resource Center
Therapy
Jamye Waxman, LMFT
TalkSpace (online therapy)
Regain (online couples therapy)
Queer Sex Therapy
Ethical Sources for Porn
Dispea (audio porn)
Femtasy (audio porn)
Bellesa (written and visual erotica)
Quinn (audio porn)
Literotica (written erotica & audio porn)
LushStories (written erotica)
SoundsOfPleasure (audio porn)
OnlyFans (visual erotica and porn - support small businesses!)
Shops
Babeland (Seattle)
SheBop (Portland)
Shop Enby
Unbound Babes
Spectrum Boutique