What's in a Sex Educator's Play Bag: My Go-To Pleasure and Safety Kit
Ever wonder what a sex educator’s play bag looks like? As a neuro-spicy eldest daughter, I like to be prepared for whatever (or whoever), at all time. I keep mine filled with essentials that prioritize pleasure, safety, and comfort. Here’s what’s in my go-to kit:
Latex-Free Condoms
🔥 LifeStyles SKYN Elite Large Condoms and Durex Avanti Bare Real-Feel Condoms (Latex-Free)
Latex allergies or sensitivities? No problem! These ultra-thin, polyisoprene condoms offer that barely-there feel without the latex. The SKYN Elite pack gives extra room and comfort, while the Durex Avanti Bare is a great grab-and-go option. NOTE that polyisoprene condoms aren’t compatible with oil-based lubes.
Silicone Lube
💦 Uberlube
A little extra slip goes a long way, and Uberlube is my go-to silicone-based lube. It’s long-lasting, body-safe, and is perfect for hand and mouth fun! I love their travel size.
Oral Sex Barriers
👄 Lorals
Use code AGEOFSEXPLORATION for 10% your order at mylorals.com or buy directly from my shop.
For those times when you want a barrier but don’t want to lose sensation, these ultra-thin latex panties are perfect for oral play. Sexy, smooth, and a great addition to any pleasure toolkit, these alternatives to dental dams help keep me safe from STIs and beard stubble.
Internal Condoms
🔥 FC2 Condoms (Internal Condoms)
Versatility is sexy! FC2s can be worn internally for vaginal or anal sex, giving more control over protection while keeping things comfortable. I find them to be GREAT for when my vulva is sensitive because they limit friction for me. Note that they are pre-lubricated with silicone lube, so be careful with toys. You can also get these delivered to your door FOR FREE (depending on your insurance) with a prescription!
Oral Play Accessories
Want an instant mouthwatering effect? These mints increase saliva production, making oral play even more fun (and extra tingly). Plus, they freshen breath—always a win.
Water-Based Lube
💖 Good Clean Love BioNude Lube
A water-based, pH-balanced option that’s free of harsh chemicals. Great for sensitive bodies and condom-compatible for all kinds of play, this is my go-to lube for penetrative sex.
Vibrator
Discreet, powerful, and rechargeable. A little vibe goes a long way, and this one is sleek, quiet, and ready to turn up the heat. I can’t find this ring online ANYWHERE, but any ring with a space for a bullet vibe will do!
Nitrile Gloves
🖤 A Bag of Nitrile Gloves
Gloves are perfect for exploring different kinds of touch, especially with multiple partners, anal play, or if you have long nails and want to be extra gentle. Plus, they can add a fun, sensual element to sensation play.
My sexy bag is all about pleasure, preparedness, and making sure everyone involved has a safe and enjoyable experience. What’s in yours? Let’s compare notes. 😉
